Early 2012 I had a brilliant (by brilliant, I mean not so brilliant) idea of joining a yoga class. Day one was hell considering that I’m about as flexible as a #2 pencil. I quit and joined another class with elderly people. This was a lot better because they aren’t quite that flexible either and the 70 year old woman I sit next to doesn’t judge me when I can’t do the asanas right. I like her. But no matter what the average age of your fellow yoga-mates (yoga-mates?) are, you will invariably find the following people at a yoga class:
1. The Clueless Guy – I feel bad for this person because he doesn’t have the slightest clue what he got himself into. He thought he was going to spend the next hour aligning his chakras and relieving all his stress. But he leaves more stressed than he came in. I used to be this person, and I know he’s terrified of eye contact and just wants to get over with it already. The best you can do is simply leave the poor guy alone.
2. Mr. Hot Stuff– There will always be an attractive person in class. But this person, oooh my, he’s just something else. I have to stop myself from straining my neck trying to get a glimpse of him as everyone gets into the downward dog position. Before you know it, he unconsciously becomes your focal point when you center yourself. (For me this person is a 63 year old ex-military man that usually needs help getting into a headstand, and I am only too eager to help. What? He’s perfect.)
3. Miss Way-too-Close – She places her mat next to mine with barely an inch of room. She doesn’t mind that our body parts are constantly touching throughout the class, and she isn’t embarrassed that I accidentally copped a field during Sun Salutations. She’s just really close with people. Some days I even get a hug at the end of class. I haven’t yet decided if I’m okay with that.
4. The Sexual Grunter- “Uhhhh” “Gaaahhhh” I hear him cry directly behind me. I understand that he has stiff muscles, but his moans and grunts make me uncomfortable and I’m a little curious about what exactly goes on back there.
5. The Phone Addict – This guy wants to escape from the internet, but no matter how much he tries he can’t seem to put his phone down. I can hear him tapping away at his phone the whole time. It starts with a FB status update before class starts, a quick email during the first set of salutations, he’ll refresh his Instagram while the teacher isn’t looking, and proudly announce on Twitter that he successfully completed his first yoga session at the end. “60 minutes without my phone was way hard dudes. LOL”
6. The Hippie – You would think that you’d find the most hippies in a yoga class. This isn’t true. Most of them are completely normal people, business men, doctors, teachers, firemen (ahhh retired firemen*), just regular people that want to work towards a healthier lifestyle. Then there are a handful of the real hippies. The kinds that go for yoga retreats and completely forget about soap and personal hygiene. He thinks he’s being eco-friendly, but there’s a reason even Miss Way-Too-Close doesn’t get within three feet of him. Every time his arms go up, you can hear the whole class hold their breath. There may or may not be a number of anonymous submissions to the suggestion box about him.
*So I like old guys. It’s no big deal.
Hawwaahha never been to a yogo class..I would definitely have to go where the Old folk go too, not going to totally embarrass myself in front of all the Lycra Barbies..LOL, Have a wonderful Friday xx00xx
Mollie and Alfie
The Old Folk class is the best! Unless you can’t do some of the things they so do easily, then the judgmental stares will haunt you in your dreams (happened to me once, I’m still getting over it)
You too, Stella!
I would never judge you! I can’t do much of anything except get on my hands and knees. I even have trouble sitting indian style. I about fall over! thanks for the pingback too!
I completely get that, sitting Indian style for too long makes my legs fall asleep 🙂
Hey! This is the second post today I read about hot older guys so you’re not alone 🙂 Definitely good to know that you are out there should I make it to my autumn and winter years in one piece!
Ummm, am I stupid or is this “6 people you will meet a yoga”? Well either way it made me laugh as usual 🙂 Yoga with oldies is definitely a good idea, what’s the point of coming out more stressed that when you went in 🙂
Thanks for sharing Miss Four Eyes!
Rohan.
ps. can I get Miss Way-Too-Close’s number? 😉 😛
I don’t know what it is about old guys, they’re just so….wow
I messed up. I was going to write ten, but I didn’t and forgot to edit it. Now there are email notifications saying 10 People, and here I only have six. *facepalm*
I’m an idiot.
P.S. Sure 😀
Aww, it happens to all of us. So often I’ve posted without tags, or without related articles, or without a featured image, or a wrong title lol >.<
Yeah I'm kinda with you on the older dudes thing. My main man crushes are John Malkovich and Ralph Fiennes.
Haha, oh god, maybe we should slow down with the number, I'm having second thoughts now… 🙂
Rohan.
Mine is Micheal Caine!
Good call. I’ve never seen her get too close to a guy, so it’s possible she plays for the other team
Good choice, have you seen the Ipcress File? He’s younger in that but very cool 🙂
Oh I see, looks like you might have yourself a bit of a fan there 🙂
Rohan.
No, but I love the young Micheal Caine too, I’ll be sure to check it out 😉
She’s a nice girl. Nice. But I don’t want a fan!
And this, of course, is why I practice yoga at home!
Seriously. I’ve done yoga since fourth grade, watching Richard Hittleman’s “Yoga for Health” show in the 1970s. (RIP RIchard Hittleman). I love yoga.
A few years ago I wrote an article about yoga for a local paper and got all these free classes to every yoga studio in town. It was a fun experience going to them, but I’d never go back to a studio. In addition to everything you wrote, I also found many of them to be clique-ish. And the bikram yoga (hot yoga) seemed like a cult with the attitudes of people there. I simply said I didn’t like it because the movements were too slow for me and some idiot jumped down my throat. No more. If I want hot yoga, I can turn up the heat in my house 🙂
Fourth grade? Wow! You must be pretty good at it!
Bikram yoga is not something I think I’d enjoy either. Like you said, I could just turn up the heat in my house!
Ummm four of them are missing? ( I did a fast glance at this b/c I was just finishing my YOGA – 🙂 )
Oops! Thanks for catching that. Edited!
This is for you!
I thought everyone in India was rubber bandy and Yoga-ish!
I thought so too, imagine my disappointment when I tried it the first time 😦
They LIED! LIED I TELL YA!
They did! LIES! ALL LIES!
I’ll bet everyone isn’t the same height too.
They aren’t! MORE LIES! Can we trust nothing anymore? What has the world come to?!
So cruel! SO CRUEL!
Omg…this number 2 pencil really needs to find a senior citizen Yoga class that does not ask for ID. It is beyond genius logic!!! Honestly….what IS going on back there? I think you may need to inquire.
Haha! Oh no! What do you think they do back there? Maybe they’re smuggling yoga mats. I need to find out now!
Hey, I’m an old guy! But I’m married.
Damn.
Great post, nonetheless, partner!
Darn!
But you’re in your 40s. NOT old, partner 🙂
Thanks!
You’re welcome.
Thanks for saying I’m not old, partner….
We share a love of old guys–no judgement! The Sexual Grunters follow me around the gym. Every class, every elliptical, every weight machine. Makes me wonder what kind of vibe I’m putting out there, you know?
Haha! Take it as a compliment?
Old guys….what is it about them? Why are they so perfect?!
I don’t know…But I love a man that makes references to movies/TV that were before my time. Swooooon!
My wife is really into yoga and is actually training to become an instructor, so i forwarded this onto her.
Thanks, Cutter! Hope she likes it
I love my yoga/balance class! But I’d seriously fail at pretty much any of the poses up top… I recognise all of the people you said though 😀 I’m the silent, slightly sweaty one at the back, trying really hard not to fall over.
Hey I’m the one trying really hard not to fall over too! *high five*
Just sent you an e-mail. Check it out when you can, all right?
Ok, I’m excited!
Have you read it yet?
Haha, you should just keep editing this post and changing the number of people you meet at yoga class. Whoops, it’s five, now it’s eight, now it’s . . .
I had a “miss too close” at the gym. Space bubbles, peeps, space bubbles. Speaking of facebook you gotta weigh in on whether you are a fb loser or a hipster douchebag. It’s the question of the century. Then you have to read about clown peen on Speaker’s blog. So much to DO.
Oh, other news – I have a creeper guy who keeps reblogging my posts on a porn site.
And to think I’ve been driving myself crazy over that when I could just mess with everyone for fun! You, Alice, are a brilliant brilliant person 😀
Would you believe that I just read both of those? I vote hipster douchebag, I already have the glasses for it. Or loser… especially if it’s the movie kind where I’m just a pathetic FB loser then all of a sudden I become a FB superhero!
As for clown peen, I loved Hugo’s! I think this statement might need some medical opinions.
HAHA! Woohoo! GO ALICE! I am so happy for you 😀
I really attract the creepers. I’ve done it on fb too. Woot.
You should have a flag! With a buttplug on it of course
A buttplug at the end of a sparkly rainbow.
Perfect!
I would proudly wave that flag for all to see
Ahahaha! I like old guys tooooooooooo! — Wait — I AM old 😦
No you’re not!
We should go old guy hunting together 😉
I took yoga in college because I was one of two guys in a thirty or so person class and the other guy was pretty clearly only there for the yoga. I hated it, and not just because the only date I got out of it was to a wedding that the girl’s cousin or something backed out on her at the last minute, leaving her dateless.
I also have that #2 pencil issue. But now that I’m an old man, I may have to look into this yoga thing again. I’m sure young ladies would be impressed by my inability to contort my fat ass into an L shape, while farting uncontrollably nonetheless the whole time while trying.
Is there a place on the list for that person who accidentally farts the whole time?
I’d have to join you on that list. What? I’m human, sometimes it happens! Sometimes I have to simultaneously cough so that nobody hears it. Sometimes I just look at Miss Way Too Close with a ‘I can’t believe you just farted!’ look. Don’t tell anyone
Being confrontational is hard. I guess one needs to go into any potential argument armed with key words that are both offensive but not too politically incorrect. Obviously, bitch is harsh, as is that dreaded C word. You don’t want to be correct in the argument but lose style points with onlookers because you crossed some line of decency to make your point.
My family is from northern Italy, so when I’m sure that I’m arguing with another Italian, I ask them if their family came from Siscilly, that gets em every time, especially if it’s true!
Maybe you should write a follow up post about proper etiquette when arguing. It could be loads of fun!
Er, Don, I think you replied to the wrong thread?
Lol, I wondered that after I hit reply! oh well, it was a rough night. Sorry ’bout that!
Don’t worry about it, happens to all of us. I just wanted to make sure you replied to the right person, or days later you’d be like “Why didn’t Person reply to me?!!” 🙂
Good point, I become very hostile when somebody doesn’t reply to one of my well conceived comments! Lol. I’m still learning blog etiquette, so feel free to ignore me anytime! I carry on with comments like they’re text message conversations sometimes. Thanks for not calling me an idiot. You’re sweet. Must be the yoga helping you to have a Zen peace or something.
Nah, I can be a talker too 😀
I have honestly been considering trying yoga, I am now wondering which of these people I will be? I am not the grunty guy, because it isn’t right. Now I may never be able to try yoga because I will be thinking about this post. 🙂
You should try it, it’s great. Be the grunty guy! Why? Well I’ll tell you why:
1. Miss Way-Too-Close will not get way too close
2. The instructor goes easy on you
3. People stay out of your way
4. You get assistance quickly (because they want you to stop grunting)
5. You make people giggle quietly
I now have a goal to shoot for! I will keep that in mind when I am trying to learn how to do yoga. 🙂 You are a great mentor.
Glad I could help, Jonalicious 😀
Dearest Naked Blog Goddess, not only are you naked, but you’re hilarious, too.
Why thank you, Sexy Stormtrooper. You are not only kind and sexy, but you’re just plain awesome!
Woohoo!
I love yoga. I hate yoga class. I hate the Perfect Practicer — she’s all tone and tan and outfit coordinated. She has perfect form and isn’t nice when she brags about it. There are also the Tantra Twins in my group. These two women have probably been bestie of bestiest friends since that first time they met at a wine tasting six months ago. They have matching outfits, jewelry and yoga mat holders. Their husbands drive matching SUVs. And, there is just something too cozy about they way they constantly compliment each other … if you know what I mean. Ya, then there’s me … I’m the chubby one that just let one rip during downward facing dog and is totally regretting that cheeseburger I ate earlier.
The Perfect Practicer motivates me so that one day I can gracefully stick my butt in the air, and hopefully her face will be inches away. I’ve never seen the Tantra Twins but they sound ridiculously annoying!
I just let one rip too, then proceeded to give the Perfect Practicer the ‘I can’t believe you just farted’ look!
hahaha … awesome!
This makes me glad I do my yoga at home. I can’t imagine assuming some of those positions around other people (think happy baby pose…). But not being able to put away your phone during yoga? That’s kind of an oxymoron, isn’t it? Bizarre.
The happy baby pose isn’t so bad around people, it’s when I can’t do the pose and fall over that it gets embarrassing (keep in mind we’re talking about not being able to do a pose in a class meant for elderly people)
Hahaha. So no ravens or bird of paradise poses for you?
Sadly, no. How the heck do people do those?! I’m still getting there
You’ll get there. 🙂
Thanks, I sure hope so 🙂
“63 year old ex-military man that usually needs help getting into a headstand” LOL yes!
I can’t practice yoga with other people. I did a few pre-natal yoga classes and those were hilarious. Other than that I generally hate exercising in front of other people.
Love this post.
You should see him, his back always perfectly straight as a military man’s should be *sigh*
I know what you mean, I don’t like exercising in front of people either. I wasn’t too keen on that when I first started, but it gets better. You learn to laugh at yourself every time you fall down (literally)
Yoga? what’s this thing called yoga? is it like exercise? well then I”m afraid I can’t do that because you see I have this allergy thing. I’m allergic to exercise. 😉
this was funny. I’m kinda likin this ex military guy though………
Well it sure isn’t advanced relaxation as I originally thought. 😀
Thanks, Jackie! That military guy, oh you should see him….*fans self*
My favourite part of Yoga class is that almost no one knows what Namaste means but they all say it anyways.
Haha! We only had one of those, people gave him looks. Miss Way Too Close shifted away from him. He got the message
Ha ha. I think you have been spying on my yoga class. My most hated yoga person is the personal space invader. Don’t touch me ok?
Especially if they’re sweaty! Sometimes I think I might not shower for a couple of days just to get her to back off
Oh do it! And then report back…
I have a feeling that this will not go well…
It will be awesome. Reclaim your space!
Hehe, and then some more!
I may be a bad influence. I apologise.
Or a very very good influence, thank you
i just had to say I thought this post was too cute! Also there is nothing wrong with liking a slightly over but ruggedly handsome man 😉
Why are old men so perfect?
Glad you liked it, Norah!
Anytime girly! And we like them because they are wise and the know sooo much more than us “youngsters” LOL…we tend to forget that intelligence can be a major turn on 😉
Good for you for doing yoga. I agree there’s always a few characters. I relate most to the sit too close person. Funny!
I’ve given up with her now. You want to sit too close? Go ahead. Warning though, I may fart. It may not be an accident.
You forgot the super flexible yoga addict who begs the instructor to turn the temperature up, saying “a few more degrees would be really comfortable” even though everyone else is dying from the heat.
Yikes! I’m so glad we don’t have any of those. Everyone in my class is always trying to turn the temperature down, sometimes I leave with a cold
Oh… I feel like I’m in the wrong yoga class.
What if it isn’t really a yoga class at all? What if it’s just a front to cover up what really goes on back there?!
oh God, I joined the mob class!
You gotta get outta there, Queen Gen!
…..or you learn some interesting mob tricks
Do you have “the Corrector” in class, too? I taught Yoga for several years and there always seemed to be one person who would question what I told them to do, or correct the people next to them. I always wanted to kick ’em out for stressing everyone else out! 🙂
Also, hurrah for older guys! 🙂
Oh, and I just ran across this post which is like a personality quiz for yoga. http://bluegrassnotes.wordpress.com/2013/03/06/learning-yourself-through-yoga/ Thought of you so I ran back to share it. 😉
That’s an interesting post. I never thought that the postures could relate to who we are. Thanks for sharing it, Rara!
We do have one of those! But she’s really nice about it so nobody minds
Older guys are the best-est!
There’s someone in my class who believes in “de-odorizing naturally.” It, um… it’s not working. It’s really not.
Gah! We have one of those too. Some days I think we should corner him before class and pour a bucket of soap water on him. Either he’ll smell better, or not come to class that day. It’s a win-win either way
Old guys…ahhhhh….me too. Why is that? I’ve never been able to figure it out. But whatever. They rock.
Maybe it’s that they carry ‘the wisdom of the world’ or something. Maybe it’s just all the Old Spice. Maybe it’s the way they say dangflabit. But like you said, whatever it is, they rock!
loved it, it really brought a smile to my face 🙂
Thanks, Lin! You’ve brought a smile to my face 🙂
This is so brilliant MissFourEyes! I can relate to the clueless guy…and the sexual grunter makes me feel uncomfortable, too. Really loved this post!
Some days I think I want to be the sexual grunter, just for fun!
Thanks, Amy! 😀
I did yoga at a gym for a while, and one of my favorite during-yoga hobbies was watching the musclebound gym rat types come into class thinking they were going to have an easy time of it. I’ve seen this happen dozens of times- by the end of the class, they’re sitting out poses and complaining about how difficult it is.
Cracks me up every time.
Haha! Those guys make me feel so much better about myself 🙂
Never been to yoga but I go to pilates and aerobic classes. I hate the most people that get in my personal space. I don’t like sweaty strangers to touch me or breath on me, I really don’t.
Why don’t people get it? Why don’t they understand that we do NOT want to be so close to them when they’re sweating? Do they want to be so close to me when I’m sweating like crazy?
I think I have met these same people in Zumba class. Love this post 🙂
Thanks, Amy!
Never tried Zumba, I guess I’ll be slightly prepared for the people if I ever do 🙂
At last some raitlnaoity in our little debate.
Definitely discouraged to join since I do everything here already in public. Yea. I grunt.
Go Daddy Ranman!
So I just started going to yoga classes a few weeks ago, and I definitely know all the people you’re talking about. I would add one though. The “I know everything” person who thinks they know all the right moves, but in reality, are just as confused as “the clueless guy.”
I have one of those! Those guys are hilarious 😀
I need to do yoga. I think I’d get along with miss-way-to-close pretty well. And I could distract her from the people who don’t know how they feel about hugs from strangers 😀
You are THE most people person I know, Jill. You should take the spot between me and miss-way-to-close 😀
We’ll have a rub-tastic meeting 🙂
Haha! You crack me up 😀
I am s flexible as a log, but I am so attracted to those classes that focus on core strengthening and stretching rather than pure aerobic work. I wish I could try “ballet beautiful” but no decent videos are available. your yoga buddies are awesome
I’m not a huge fan of aerobic workouts, not sure why. Just isn’t for me, I guess. But yeah, my yoga buddies make yoga so much better 😀
This made me laugh! I have to watch my yoga class manners now, because I may well be Miss way too close
Haha, I’m sure you’re fine 😀
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I just recently went to a Yoga class (not Bikram) and we had the sexual orgasm breather and a really hippie dippy instructor that played a drum over my heart when I was in savasana (corpse pose) with my eyes closed – it freaked me RIGHT OUT. My favorite part was when he told us he was going to give us a ‘treat’ and we got to listen to the new CD he was putting out… BUT WAIT – THERE’S MORE! if it was my intro to Yoga – it would have been my exit from Yoga.
Drums? Oh no! That’s so much worse than the orgasm breather. At least you know he’s enjoying himself.
My instructor made us listen to one of her CDs too. Bad idea when done in savasana, I fell asleep.
The orgasm breather was actually a woman in this instance. The teacher was very nice as a person but annoying as an instructor.
haha… Maybe this is a country-specific thing? Here in Scotland we get type 1, for sure. But the others… I’ve *never* seen anyone on a phone in any yoga class I’ve been in.
Old guys with perfect legs, yes! We got them 🙂
Maybe you only have the sane people taking yoga in Scotland? You are so lucky to not have Miss Way-too-Close or the Sexual Grunter.
Woohoo for internationally wonderful old guys 🙂
Oh, I don’t think we can claim to corner the market in sanity! Perhaps it’s just my habit of frequenting village halls and council run classes. I’m sure that in, say, a fancy Ashtanga studio in Edinburgh you’d find Mr and Ms Hot Stuff. Possibly even a Phone Addict, these days, for all I know.
Most classes I’ve been in have Mr Snores-Throughout-Savasana. I also regularly notice Ms I’m-Ostensibly-At-Peace-With-Where-I-Am-But-Actually-Striving-Was-That-My-Hamstring-That-Just-Snapped? And there’s always at least one Mrs I’ve-Been-Doing-Yoga-for-ages-and-the-teacher’s-repeated-that-instruction-600-times-to-me-but-I’ve-still-not-heard-it. Since I used to be a primary teacher, the last one makes me come over all un-yogic, wanting to bark at them, ‘did you not hear her? BENT knees’ but luckily I’ve never been so graceless, or I’d be in Rara’s The Corrector category. Oh dear. I’m a Closet Corrector 😉
Haha, The Closet Corrector! I’m the Trying-Too-Hard-Not-To-Fall-Over-So-Can’t-Get-The-Pose-Right person, which of course almost never works out. Mr Snores-Throughout-Savasana? He is the only one truly at peace, don’t you think? 😀
oh yes, at peace. Even if not aware. 🙂